Vayeishev - A Salutary Lesson in Parenting
Joseph had everything going for him. " Genesis 37:2 At seventeen years of age, Joseph tended the flocks with his brothers, as a helper to the sons of his father’s wives, Bilhah and Zilpah." He was following the family tradition of being a shepherd. He fitted into the mould, alongside his brothers. However, not all is well as we told in the same verse: Genesis 37:2 And Joseph brought bad reports of them to their father." You would expect the Torah to tell us that Jacob admonishes Joseph for tale-bearing. Wouldn't that be the logical follow-on to this episode? However, strangely, the next verse informs us that: " Genesis 37:3 (3) Now Israel loved Joseph best of all his sons, for he was the child of his old age; and he had made him an coat of many colours." Chizkuni, a 13th Century French commentator explains that: (The word פסים -"of many colours" can be seen) as a 'compensation,' for being a h