In the 1960s, the late Harry Nilsson wrote a very sad song entitled: ‘One’.
Its first
stanza read:
‘One is the loneliest number that
you'll ever do’
We can survive
as single entities but for many of us, it is the company of others that helps to
brighten our lives, be it with fellow humans or even pets. On the surface, at least, having a ‘me party’
isn’t as much fun as spending the evening with two or more friends, is it?
Given the choice of an odd or even quantity, which would you prefer?
Keeping
this idea in mind, how about celebrating Yom Kippur not for one, but instead
two days?
The Gemara
(Rosh Hashanah 21a) tells us that:
Rava
would regularly sit in observance of the fast of Yom Kippur for two days in
case Elul had been declared a thirty-day month and Yom Kippur should be observed
on what was observed in Babylonia as the eleventh of Tishrei. It once happened in accordance with his opinion. Elul had been declared a thirty-day month, and
he was the only one who observed Yom Kippur on the correct day. It was related that Rav Naḥman
had once fasted the entire day of Yom Kippur as usual. In the evening, toward the end of his fast, a
certain man came and said to him, “Tomorrow is the great day, Yom Kippur, in the
West, Eretz Yisrael, and it is therefore necessary to fast tomorrow.”
Fortunately
for us, the Rabbis didn’t agree with this line of thinking and so this did not become
the accepted custom!
I will be
the first to admit that although there are legitimate reasons to prefer even numbers,
I have a weakness for the number ‘one’, singular in nature as it may be.
I am the only
child of an only child (my father had no siblings) and although I love being the
father of four, step-father of another four and grandfather of three (nearly
four), if left on my own for a few hours, I can always find something to occupy
my time, be it reading, writing a drasha or watching one of my favourite films. To me, one is anything but a lonely number
and guess what? Both Stephnie and my
birthdays are on the 1st of August and December respectively and our
chuppah was on the 1st of Tevet!
In fact, ‘one’
is a very Jewish number and it is inexorably linked to Yom Kippur.
For at the
very end of the fast, a single note from the Shofar will signify the completion
of the holiest day in our calendar. One note
is all that is needed.
Our prayers
focus on the singularity of the one Gd. During
the emotional closing stages (shortly before the blowing of the Shofar), we recite
the most famous prayer in our liturgy – “Hear
O Israel, the Lord is our Gd, the Lord is One.”
Yom Kippur
was the only day in the year when the Kohen Gadol, the High Priest was allowed to
enter the Holy of Holies in the Temple.
The fast itself
is the only one (of our six) that is mandated in the Torah.
Yet, at times
for us, the Jewish nation, ‘one’ was a very lonely number. We were alone, isolated and facing destruction. A case in point was the outbreak of the Yom Kippur
War, exactly fifty years ago this afternoon (which coincidentally began when the
Egyptians started an offensive at 2:00 Israeli time, which was 1:00 over here). One small
nation facing the might of the Egyptian and Syrian armies.
Despite the odds, both half a century ago and further back, we survived and held faith in the one Gd that we believe in. The very same that we turn our hearts and minds to on this day and pray for peace inside our beloved State of Israel. That He helps us to find a way to reunite as a unified nation and agree on a resolution to solve the very serious and complex problems facing the country at this moment.
My father,
of blessed memory, always said that he was not afraid of what Israel’s enemies could
achieve. He was much more concerned regarding
the damage we could do to ourselves as has been demonstrated so many times in our
long history.
We can be
‘Am Echad BeLev Echad – One people with a single heart’ if we choose to be and when
we come together, as we did recently against Corbyn, we can achieve miracles. As Abraham Lincoln famously said, “A house divided against itself cannot stand.”
You may recall a few years ago that I connected the
five prayers we recite over Yom Kippur to the levels of consciousness that
exist within our souls. For on this
holiest of days, not only are we compared to angels but also it is the unique
occasion that all souls are judged by Gd, both in heaven and earth. The Nefesh is the level that connects with our
mortal beings, followed by the Ruach, Neshama and Chaya.
The highest level the soul can attain is that of
the Yechida, whose root is ‘Echad’ – one- where the soul is bound to Gd
Himself. Literally, it is at ‘one with
Hashem’ which is the ultimate connection with Yom Kippur.
One man, Moshe
Rabbeinu, was able to fight for our survival.
It is because of his efforts that our ancestors were saved from Gd’s wrath
when our greatest Prophet and leader descended from Mount Sinai. He was holding the second set of Tablets on the
very first Yom Kippur and this showed our ancestors that they had been forgiven
for the sin of the Golden Calf.
And all these
years later, we are a united nation that prays together, irrespective of where we
happen to find ourselves in the world on the single day in our calendar that acts
a catalyst to bring us together. We ask Gd,
to forgive us, both on a personal level and as a people, united in hope and belief
that things can improve. It demonstrates
the power of ‘one’.
Returning to my original theme, I think that when it comes to appreciating Yom Kippur we can respectfully disagree with Mr Nilsson. One is certainly not the loneliest number.
It
represents purity, unity and resilience. It is our story. We are the singular nation that survived
despite the odds (pun intended).
We should
use the opportunity that Yom Kippur provides us with, to ask for forgiveness from
Gd. On the same day that we received the
second set of tablets and thousands of years later nearly faced the prospect of
losing Eretz Yisrael, let us consider the power of this very day - the ONE
period of 25 hours that will impact the rest of the year. It all depends on the effort we put into our
prayers, irrespective of the language we choose to utilize.
A single
word, spoken from the heart is worth more than a hundred uttered thoughtlessly.
Wishing you
all a continued meaningful and easy fast on this very special and unique day. Gmar Chatimah Tovah – may we all be blessed with
a wonderful year and one that we will wish to remember for all the best reasons
- the one that we have prayed for.
Chag Sameach.