Parashat Ki Tissa: The Success of Failure

A short while ago, Stephnie and I had the opportunity to hear one of the book’s authors being interviewed by Jake Wallis Simons, the editor of the JC.  They discussed the current situation in Israel and the impact this would have on an area of research that this writer had spent so many years investigating for both his original book and its recently published sequel.  Following the conversation we, in the audience, were handed a complimentary copy of the new tome which he willingly signed.

According to the blurb at the back of ‘The Genius of Israel: The Surprising Resilience of a Divided Nation in a Turbulent World’ (Constable, 2023), Dan Senor ‘was a senior advisor to Paul Ryan’s 2012 campaign for vice president and foreign policy advisor to Mitt Romney’s presidential campaigns.’ He was also a ‘former Defence Department official who had been based in Baghdad and at ‘U.S. Central Command in Qatar’ as well as being a ‘U.S. Senate aide in the 1990s.’

This man knew what he was talking about and, together with his co-author Saul Singer, a former editor and columnist at the Jerusalem Post, had written the New York Times bestseller ‘Start-Up Nation: The Story of Israel’s Economic Miracle’ (Published by Twelve in 2009, revised in 2011).

It made sense for me to read this book before embarking on its follow-up.  I would recommend purchasing a second-hand copy as an original edition is very expensive.  Make sure you opt for the 2011 edition which features a New Forward by Shimon Peres zl/OBM.

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Senor and Singer ask a very interesting question which is printed on the reverse of the paperback:

“How can Israel – with only 7.1 million people (which has increased to an estimated 9.1 million as of mid-2023), no natural resources, enemies on every border and in a constant state of war – produce more start-up companies than Japan, India, Korea, Canada and the United Kingdom?”

If I tell you that it takes 361 pages to provide an answer (which includes a 30-page bibliography!), I think you will forgive me for choosing to share only a few of the salient points.

What it boils down to is a mixture of Israeli Chutzpah, industrial-strength levels of risk-taking and living in one of the most contested, violent, unpredictable and maddeningly frustrating locations on the planet.  It also presents a unique set of factors that result in our wonderful country being a magnet that attracts IT royalty like Microsoft, Google and Intel along with investors like Warren Buffett, the sixth richest man in the world, who is worth $137 billion.

According to Senor and Singer, at the heart of Israel’s success is something very surprising - The tolerance Israeli society exhibits towards failure.

They write that “…Israeli culture and regulations reflect a unique attitude to failure, one that has managed to repeatedly bring failed entrepreneurs back into the system to constructively use their experience to try again, rather than leave them permanently stigmatized and marginalized.”  They underscore their point by stating that, “Israeli attitude and informality flow also from a cultural tolerance for what some Israelis call ‘constructive failures’ or ‘intelligence failures.’  Most local investors believe that without tolerating a large number of failures, it is impossible to achieve true innovation.  In the Israeli military, there is a tendency to treat all performance – both successful and unsuccessful – in training and simulations and sometimes even in battle as value-neutral.  So long as the risk was taken intelligently and not recklessly, there is something to be learned.”

We do not need to look far to appreciate the failures that led to the catastrophic events of 7th October which itself was a day after the fiftieth anniversary of the Yom Kippur War, another black day in our story.  As Jews, we know what failure looks like.  We are well versed in its bleak history.  From decimated monarchies to ruined Temples – we understand the concept of failure.  ‘How the mighty have fallen!’

In this week’s Parasha, we read about our first experience of failure.

Our ancestors, who had witnessed the greatest miracle on earth with the giving of the Torah, reached the lowest depths of moral degradation when they worshipped the Egel Hazahav - the Golden Calf.  It was the ultimate insult to Gd and understandably He threatened to destroy them but held back following Moshe’s desperate attempt to save them.  Faced with the first serious test following the Exodus from Egypt, they proved that they were not ready to progress to the next level of spiritual elevation.

Over a year later, a second test consisting of the spies’ scouting expedition proved that they seemed more adept to fail than succeed.  Their punishment lasted forty years.

And yet, despite all of this, Gd refused to give up on us.  We let him down again and again and again.  Read the Tanach and you will find more incidences of our national (and on many occasions tragic) failures than our successes.  Even when we overcame the many obstacles that were sent our way, we managed to turn the advantageous tide against us and suffered the all-too predictable results.

Why did Gd not abandon us forever?  Because of a single idea that saved our skins (sometimes quite literally) and the one we read about in this week’s Parasha.

Moshe argued successfully that Gd should desist from destroying the people and once he had managed to do this, he asked Gd to give him a formula that he could employ if ever a similar situation rose again.  Gd taught him the Thirteen Attributes that we recite numerous times during the year, particularly on Yom Tov, in our Selichot and over Yom Kiuppur.  In other words, He taught him the idea of Teshuva – repentance.  The word itself means ‘to return’ and suggests that we are actively changing our behaviour and returning to a pure state which is connected to Gd.

In the famous poem, ‘An Essay on Criticism’ Alexander Pope (d. 1744) wrote, “To err is human; to forgive, Divine.”  We can add that Divine forgiveness can only be granted if we repent for our errors or as we call it ‘doing Teshuva’.

Chazal teach us that in order to achieve Teshuvah we need to undertake a three-part process.

1.    Confession (vidui): where we verbally acknowledge the wrongdoing and vocalize our awareness that we have transgressed Gd’s will.

2.    Regret (charata): the act of asking forgiveness should not just be words spoken; we need to be truly sorry for what we have done.

3.    Commitment for the future (kabbalah al ha’atid): where we pledge not to do this again, and we really, truly mean it.

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The three stages mirror the idea that success can only come about when we recognise our failures.  Although Teshuva refers to our behaviour vis-à-vis Gd and our fellow human beings, the notion that success can only be achieved once we recognise and accept failure seems to be embedded inside our Jewish DNA.

One doesn’t need to be a practising Jew to ‘feel Jewish’. This has been in evidence since October when Jews of all persuasions connected to the State of Israel along with those to whom Israel was but the name of a country they would never wish to visit.  They have felt the need to speak out and attend rallies in support of their brethren.  When it comes to identifying as Jewish, this would have been unthinkable six months ago.

There will be a time for uncomfortable questions that will probe deeply into the reasons for the failure we have witnessed.  However, we can gain immeasurable pride from the way in which our people have joined together throughout the world to show their support for Israel.

Returning to the book and its findings, I don’t think that it is surprising to see how Israelis accept failure as a stepping stone to achieving success because this is a type of Teshuva that we have undertaken since the episode of the Golden Calf.  Yes, we failed and we did this time and again, but we always knew what had to be done to turn that failure into success.  Whether it was the Jews who gathered together in Shushan to pray for salvation against the evil decree of Haman or those who have spent the last five months giving everything they can in assistance, time, finance and political lobbying – these are shining examples of what success looks like.

Senor and Singer referred to Israel as the ‘Start-up Nation’ and they are right, except for one minor detail – this moniker applies to the Jewish people.  We’ve been a Start-up Nation since that first misdemeanour in the Sinai Desert.

To succeed, you must accept failure.  You have to do Teshuva, in whatever form works best for you.

We succeed because we fail, or to put it differently, we, Am Yisrael, are the supreme example of the success of failure!

Shavuah Tov.

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