12 May 2024

Parashat Kedoshim: The Letters That Define Us.

Dalet (ד), Kuf (ק), and Shin (ש) are three letters of the alef-bet that pronounced individually have no symbolic meaning (although as we know, the letter Shin represents G-d’s name through its use on religious items such as Mezuzot and Tefillin).

Join them together and they form one of the most important shorashim/roots in the Hebrew language.  A word, that is so integral to our faith that without it, the religion that we practice would be completely unrecognisable.

That root is the word קָדַשׁ (Kodash).

One of the names we call Gd is Hakadosh Baruch-Hu, the Holy One, Blessed be He.

We have just celebrated the festival of Pesach and the Seder begins with Kadesh.     Imagine observing Shabbat without making Kiddush or enjoying a Kiddush after shul?  How would a mourner be able to honour their departed relative without reciting Kaddish (and we know how upset we feel when we are unable to form a minyan)?  Our Torah Scrolls are stored in the Aron Kodesh.  That minyan enables us to recite the Kedusha prayer in the repetition of the Amidot that are recited throughout the entire week at Shacharit, Mincha and when applicable, Musaph.

Our Temple was known as the Beit Hamikdash and the Kodesh Hakodashim or Holy of Holies was where the Ark of the Covenant was stored (in the First Temple).  It was accessed by the Kohen Gadol/High Priest on the holiest day of the year, Yom Kippur.

Anything that was consecrated for use in the Temple such as animals for offerings of monetary donations towards the treasury to pay for the building’s upkeep were considered to be Hekdesh.  Since Talmudic Times, we have continued this concept to cover mitzvot such as giving Tzedaka, in terms of not misusing funds that were consecrated towards providing monetary relief to the poor members of our communities.

You may have seen the acronym קק  (or KK) as part of the name of a Synagogue. This stands for Kahal Kodesh which means a ‘Holy Community’.

These are a few examples of how the shoresh of the word ‘k-d-sh  ק־ד־שׁ’ is embedded within the DNA of Judaism.

But what does the word ‘kodesh’ mean and what does it represent?

On a simple/peshat level, Kodesh means holy or sacred.

I found a lovely definition of the word on https://www.balashon.com/2022/04/kodesh-and-kadosh.html

The author writes…

…that the root קדש has two primary connotations.

1) ‘to be holy’, in the sense of ‘lofty, exalted’, even ‘perfect’, and perhaps closer to divine.  This is captured well by the English word ‘holy’ (and the related ‘hallow’) which derives from an earlier root meaning ‘whole, uninjured’ (and is ultimately cognate with ‘whole’ as well.)

2) ‘to set apart, separate.’  Perhaps this meaning could better be expressed with the adjective ‘sacred,’ and the verb ‘sanctify’, both of which derive from roots indicating separation or consecration.

When we sanctify something, we give it a separate Halachic status.  On Shabbat, we do this by blessing the day when make the bracha of ‘mekadesh HaShabbat – He who sanctifies the Sabbath’ through the blessing over the wine or grape juice.

Kedushah or holiness is therefore a state which separates a person or item from other people or objects.  You may be surprised to hear that one of the Biblical words to describe a harlot is Kedesha (see Bereishit 38:21, with regard to Judah’s description of his unrecognizable daughter-in-law, Tamar).  This is because she is woman who separates herself from the rest of a moral driven society.

Our national connection with this idea of Kedusha (as representing separation and holiness) finds its origins in Gd’s instruction to our ancestors at the foot of Mount Sinai.

As we were about to receive the Torah, He told us (Shemot 19) that if we faithfully heeded His voice and kept His covenant, we would be His treasure among all the peoples…Mamlechet Cohanim – a kingdom of priests and Goy Kadosh – a holy nation.

At Sinai, holiness, sacredness and therefore separation were branded into our national consciousness.  To be Gd’s nation, to represent His presence on earth, to teach His Torah - which He gave to us – to the rest of the world, meant having to be different from others. 
Not better but different.

This week’s Parasha begins with G-d’s instruction to Moshe:

“Speak to all the community of Israel.  Say…Kedoshim Tihiyu, ki kadosh Ani Hashem Elokeichem – Be holy, for I am holy, I The Lord your Gd.”

Parashat Kedoshim provides detailed instructions on what holiness entails.  How, we as a nation must prioritise a different set of laws and moral standards that were vastly dissimilar to those kept and practiced by the other nations who surrounded us, both near and far.  If we followed Gd’s commands, we would reap the rewards of His beneficence.

On the flip side, we discovered that we also suffered as a result of the inevitable hate directed at us from those who saw us as different.  Those who did not respect or value the tight-knitted and caring societies that we established.  Those who resented the righteousness we espoused and the strong moral compass that underpinned the way we behaved.

Throughout the centuries that followed, we paid the price for being Kedoshim – holy, and the term itself came to represent those of our nation who were killed ‘al Kiddush Hashem’ – sanctifying Gd’s name.

Last Monday, we remembered the six million Kedoshim - the holy martyrs of the Shoah.  Tomorrow night, we will mark the commencement of Yom Hazikaron which recalls many other Kedoshim.  The holy souls who have been killed protecting and living in Medinat Yisrael including those who were martyred on 7th October and ever since.

Being separate may encourage us to live by a different set of moral rules.  It also requires us to pay a bloody price in terms of the suffering we have been subjected to and continue to endure from those whose despise us – precisely because we are Kadosh.

In just over two weeks, I will be completing the eleven months of reciting Kaddish in memory of my father.  For those of us who have gone through the mourning process, we know how lonely it feels to sometimes find yourself being the only one to recite the prayer.

Many people don’t like to draw attention to themselves in shul.  They are happy to sit at the back and blend in with others.  They come to shul, talk a little, pray, speak to their friends, enjoy the kiddush and return home.  Reciting Kaddish removes their anonymity and instantly, every ear in the building is focused on listening to them.

Stephnie and I recently spent Pesach at the new BNJC hub in Hove.  As you may be aware, it is also the new home of the Brighton and Hove Hebrew Congregation (BHHC).  Throughout the Chag, I was one of two or three people saying Kaddish.  Despite my having recited this prayer probably close to two thousand times over the last ten months, I felt very conscious whenever it was time to recite this (despite knowing how important it is in helping my dear father’s soul reach its heavenly destination).

On the last day of Yom Tov, something extraordinary took place.  At the end of Yizkor, every single person in the room recited Kaddish alongside me.  For the first time, we were united in this incredible, holy prayer.  It was the very epitome of what it meant to be part of Goy Kadosh – a holy, sacred nation.  I was so moved that it almost took my breath away.

Three letters that may seem to be insignificant, underpin who we are.  Irrespective of how connected or disconnected some of our brethren may be, I would wager that it is a minority of Jews who don’t know what a Kiddush is.  It is a handful who wouldn’t appreciate or be moved by hearing someone recite Kaddish and it is even fewer who wouldn’t know what we place inside an Aron Kodesh (even if they don’t know its Hebrew name).

Each of us has a Kedushah gene in our Jewish DNA regardless of whether we can understand or explain why we are different and what makes us so.  That it takes antisemitism to wake this up in some is desperately sad but at the same time, it reminds us of who we are and where we originate.

Kaf, Dalet and Shin form the single word which defines us, for we are Gd’s Holy nation.

Along with the Angels, we praise Gd as being Kadosh, Kadosh, Kadosh - Holy, Holy, Holy.

May He sanctify us and bring us to the eternal redemption with the coming of Moshiach.

Amen and Shavuah Tov.


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