25 September 2025

Rosh Hashanah I: People of the Year - Omer Shem Tov

On 2nd January 1928, Time Magazine inaugurated its very first ‘Man of the Year’ issue (The award is now titled ‘Person of the Year’). The initial recipient was Charles Lindburgh who had famously ‘made the first non-stop flight across the Atlantic Ocean on May 20-21, 1927 in his ‘Ryan NYP Spirit of St. Louis’

(https://content.time.com/time/specials/packages/article/0,28804,2019712_2019703_2019658,00.html)

This tradition has continued to the present day with the honouree being announced around the second week in December.

President Donald Trump was last year’s choice (and a glance at the list of runners-up is also worth checking out).

Time’s Wikipedia entry describes this edition as:

‘featuring a person, group, idea, or object that "for better or for worse ...has done the most to influence the events of the year".

With this in mind, I have decided to focus my High Holidays Drashot/Sermons on individuals or groups who have, paraphrasing this entry, ‘done the most to influence the events of my year’. All three of my Drashot are therefore entitled ‘People of the Year’.

Rosh Hashanah is our annual opportunity to both reflect on the year that has just ended whilst praying for a trouble-free future. As we read in the Unetaneh Tokef prayer at Musaph (please feel free to follow on Page 147 of the Routledge Machzor):

 

‘On the first day of the year (Rosh Hashanah) it is inscribed and on the Day of Atonement the decree is sealed, how many shall pass away and how many shall be born, who shall live and who shall die….’

Omer Shem Tov was kidnapped by Hamas on 7th October from the Nova Dance Festival and held hostage in Gaza for a total of 505 days, of which 50 were spent 40 metres under the ground crouched in a tiny, locked tunnel cell in solitary confinement in pitch-black darkness for most of the time. He survived on a single daily biscuit and a little salty water.

On the first day of Rosh Hashanah last year, which equates with 3rd October, he had been in captivity for 363 days or 11 months and 27 days. Whilst we were reciting Unetaneh Tokef in this beautiful Synagogue, Omer was imprisoned in a tunnel not knowing whether the New Year of 5785 would be his last.

Following the horrific attacks of 7th October, the Board of Deputies initiated a campaign to have Synagogues ‘adopt a hostage’. My community of Staines chose Omer. For the duration of his captivity, we attached a photograph of ‘Our Omer’ to a seat in the prayer hall. We placed a framed picture bearing the hashtag ‘bring him home now’ on a table in the entrance hall in front of a pinboard where we displayed updates on his situation. Our members wrote emails to numerous MPs including Michael Gove and Kwasi Kwarteng who was the former Member of Parliament for Spelthorne. We prayed and prayed for Omer but were met with what seemed like interminable silence. Little did we know what would transpire.

On Shabbat, 22nd February (which also happens to be my daughter Talia’s birthday), ‘Our Omer’ was released and we were overjoyed.

You can imagine our delight when we heard that he was going to be visiting this country in June. We were asked by Staines to represent the community and it was arranged that Stephnie and I would be the only people allowed to meet him (from amongst over a thousand attendees). JNF UK organised a special event at St John’s Wood Shul and they could not have been more willing to help and accommodating to our requests.

However, as we know, it turned out that for the first time in nearly 50 years, direct flights between Israel and Iran took place (I wish I could take credit for that line!) over a twelve-day period. Omer was unable to leave Israel due to the conflict.

Proceedings could have taken place online but being the kind of person he is, he decided to postpone his trip so that he could attend in person which he did in July.

We arrived early and were ushered into a room where Omer was sitting with his father, Malki and a documentary filmmaker, Yoram Zak.

You can see a video interview between Dana Zohar who organised the evening and Yoram at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfAP9OYvP1I.

I can’t adequately describe the emotions I felt when I met Omer. Words fail me, but the first thing I asked was if I could hug him and he willingly obliged! In fact, we talked and hugged at least three times. I presented him with a beautiful book containing copies of the emails I described as well as the photographs of the Synagogue (including his framed picture). He very kindly recorded a heartfelt video message for the members. I told him that to us, he was ‘Our Omer’ and that as far as we were concerned, we had adopted him for life!

Which brings me back full circle to Rosh Hashanah. On this day, Gd looks upon the  entire world and judges every living creature on its own merits. Chazal, our Rabbis tell us that He opens three ‘books’ – the first for the righteous, the second for the wicked and the third, for the rest of us who fall in-between the two. He measures out our good deeds against our transgressions (or in Hebrew terminology, Mitzvot and Aveirot) and He makes a decision that will impact our year.

‘On Rosh Hashanah it is inscribed and on Yom Kippur the decree is sealed…’

Last year, Gd made the decision to inscribe Omer Shem Tov and everyone sitting here today in the Book of Life. At the same time, He decreed that two people in this room would have their lives impacted by meeting a third. I wrote the following in my preface to the book we presented Omer which is taken from Pirkei Avot/ Ethics of the Fathers:

“Rabbi Shimon said, “There are three crowns: the crown of Torah, the crown of priesthood and the crown of kingship – the crown of a good name surpasses them all.” As you may have gathered, ‘shem tov’ means ‘a good name’.

When he was in captivity, Omer connected with Gd and had daily conversations with Him, calling Him ‘Aba – daddy’. He would start by asking Gd ‘how He was’!

 Since being released, he lays tefillin every day (except for Shabbat and Yom Tov) and in fact, the reason why we had to wait to meet with him was that he was doing exactly this whilst everyone around him was busy preparing for the evening.

He is an extraordinary human being in so many ways and meeting him has been inspirational. He has brought home to us the enormity of what has been taking place in almost two years of the nightmare that began on that Shmini Atzeret morning. Just as importantly, his courage and bravery in extremely challenging situations has been inspirational in a way that I can’t fully describe. That he happens to have a great sense of humour is all the more remarkable considering the trauma he has experienced.

Which is why, to me, Omer Shem Tov is my ‘Man of the Year’.

We are about to embark on a new adventure on the ‘good ship’ we call ‘5786’.

o   A year where we fervently pray that more Omers will return to their loved ones.

o   That Israel and the Jewish People will find the genuine and meaningful peace we are so desperate to achieve.

o   That our enemies will be judged on what they did and will be held accountable by both heavenly and terrestrial courts. May their evil plans and machinations against us be frustrated.

o   And finally, that someone as worthy as Omer Shem Tov becomes my Man of the Year for 5787.

There are many more individuals who have influenced me over the last year and I look forward to sharing their stories with you in the coming days! 

May we all be blessed with a happy, healthy and peaceful new Year. Shanah Tovah Umetukah to you and yours from Stephnie and myself.

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Rosh Hashanah I: People of the Year - Omer Shem Tov

On 2 nd January 1928, Time Magazine inaugurated its very first ‘Man of the Year’ issue (The award is now titled ‘Person of the Year’). The ...