In loving memory of my mother, Bryna Rouge bat Yechiel ah
Last
week, Stephnie and I visited a very dear friend of mine who lives with her
husband and two daughters in Bet Shemesh.
We have known each other since we were teenagers which, without giving
away our respective ages, is a long time.
The
family lives near some green belt land and at the top of an adjacent hill lies the
monastery of Bet Jamal. The name of the
area seems to be derived from the ancient burial ground of Rabban Gamliel I who
was the head of the Sanhedrin.
During
a pleasant tea on their front lawn, the four of us discussed hiking up the hill
to a mysterious 'olive tree' that they wanted me to view.
My
friend’s husband and I proceeded to make our way through a field and then up
the incline to our destination. As we
approached the tree and were about to reach it, he asked me to close my eyes
before entering the clearing it occupied.
I
have to say that I was intrigued. What
could be so special that required such a move? I dutifully complied and after leading me by
the hand for a few minutes, he asked me to open my eyes. The sight that greeted me was quite
overwhelming.
We
both looked at the tree and marvelled at its structure and age. How much has it seen in two millennia? Has it acted as a hideaway for our ancestors
in a land that has seen so many conquerors? Has it survived a multitude of brush fires
that threatened its very existence? We
noticed that a fungus was growing on some of its bark, yet it was managing to
heal itself.
My
new hiking partner explained how inspired he becomes each time he encounters
'his tree' and the reaction of those he takes along to pay a visit. You know when you are in the vicinity of
greatness and this tree was simply magnificent.
I
found it difficult to tear myself away from the spectacle. As we descended the hill, we looked at the
beautiful vista which took in the different neighbourhoods of Bet Shemesh. Halfway down, we paused to daven Mincha
whilst viewing the rapidly setting sun.
On our
way back, he told me about his parents and how his mother had been a survivor
of Bergen Belsen. I shared my own family
history and noted that his wife was also the daughter of a hidden child who had
been saved in occupied France.
Last
week witnessed both the first Yartzheit of my dear mother on Tuesday and Yom
Hashoah on Thursday - the day in our calendar when we remember those of our
nation whose lives were stolen and whose relatives were uprooted. Hundreds and thousands of years of history
were wiped out in the blink of an eye. Millions
of human trees were torn from their deep roots, never to be seen again.
And
all the while, this olive tree stood stoically and witnessed from afar the
catastrophe that was taking place. Another
incomprehensible event in the span of its gargantuan lifetime. Perhaps it cried tears by shedding its leaves. Perhaps it felt that the people it had seen
exiled two thousand years ago would never return. Perhaps it just hoped to cling onto its own
dear life by extending its roots even deeper into the shaky ground that had
been its home for longer than the lifetime of any human being.
Two thousand years after the people who might have planted it had perished, their descendants whose own families had been cut down, returned to marvel at its resilience and refusal to be defeated. My friend, her husband and I are living, embodiments of the second generation who have survived the Shoah. She is Israeli, he is Australian and I am British. Three wandering Jews and a tree which has never left its place of origin. Is that not a description of what is means to be a Jew?
The
olive tree, whose outstretched roots allowed us to sit in its lap reminded us
that it was one of us. There have been
many who would have liked to wrench our roots out of the spiritual soil that
has kept us alive since Avraham set up his tent in ancient Canaan. They have never succeeded.
For
we are like that old tree. The more you
tug at our leaves, the more we dig our heels in. Perhaps that ancient tree is the perfect metaphor
of what it means to be a Jew.
Long
may it continue to flourish.
Shavua Tov.
No comments:
Post a Comment