23 June 2024

Parashat Beha'alotecha: This One's For You, Dad

 Dedicated to the memory of my dear father, R’ Yitzchak Asher ben Yechezkel Shraga on the anniversary of his passing.

Dear Dad,

I’m writing to you because you’ve been on my mind throughout the last year, particularly over the course of this week.


I am writing these words on Tuesday evening, in the knowledge that in just over 48 hours, I will be reaching the end of my year of aveilut/mourning for you.  I will mark the occasion by switching off the electric light imprinted with the words ‘Ner Neshama’ – ‘a light for the soul’ at the end of the day, once darkness has fallen.

The light has remained on since 3rd July last year, corresponding with 14th Tammuz which was the day your soul left the home it had inhabited since the end of 1927.

Actually, I’m not being wholly accurate.  The light was damaged when your step great-grandchildren dropped a board game on it causing a temporary blip!  Thankfully Benjamin, Stephnie’s youngest son and Adam, Gabrielle’s boyfriend, worked their magic to restore it. Sorry about that!

As you know, in this week’s Parasha of Beha’alotecha, we read that G-d told Moshe to instruct his brother Aharon on the process of preparing and kindling the Menorah for its daily use in the Mishkan. These instructions were passed on to his sons and descendants.

To this day, every shul in the world has a ner tamid/everlasting light to remind us of the Menorot in the Mishkan and Batei Mikdash/Temples.  This is in addition to our recreating the act over the eight days of Chanukah in our homes.

Dad, you know that in Judaism, we put great emphasis on the importance of light.  Every Friday night, we light candles in honour of Shabbat and bid farewell to our holy day through the kindling of the Havdalah Candle the next day.

We appreciate that, just as wicks or candles bring light to the world, so do people.  When you smiled, your soul shone through your eyes.  You lit up a room and brightened the mood.

Your ner zikaron, though small and placed in the corner of our living room, has been a lasting reminder of how missed you are and the modest light it emits has been a constant reminder that, by your loss, our lives have been darker.

The practice of lighting a Yartzheit candle for a departed relative on the Hebrew anniversary of their passing probably goes back to Mishnaic times, whilst the lesser known minhag/custom of keeping a light on in the home for a year is more recent.  In the past, Chabad communities would ensure that a candle was lit over the period of the year in the shul.  These days, we use electric memorial boards instead.  They are probably safer too!

A contemporary Rabbi, the Nitei Gavriel, Rabbi Gavriel Zimmer, who lives in Boro Park (which isn’t far from where you lived) quotes the Ruach Chayim (Rabbi Chaim Palagi d.1868) who was the Turkish (and therefore Sephardi) Chief Rabbi of Smyrna as being the source for this custom.  I remember when you honoured your parents by keeping a light on for an entire year upon their passing (along with mum’s departed relatives).

Dad, you and mum provided much of the spiritual light that powers me today.  You encouraged me to develop my knowledge and share it with others.  You lit the internal menorah that burns brightly inside me to this day, replicating the beautiful acts performed by Aharon as described at the start of Beha’alotecha.

I therefore feel a modicum of sadness knowing that when I push that switch, the light that served as a bridge between the day you passed away and the end of my year of mourning will be extinguished.

The consolation I will have lies in the knowledge that, although the physical light will return to the drawer that keeps it safe on non-Yartzheit days, the spiritual light that I received from you will never be diminished inside me.

As Jews, we understand the concept of darkness.  At times like these, it sometimes feels that we are enveloped deeply inside it.  But, dad, you always taught me that each day brings new hope and you made me realise that we should be thankful for the light we are blessed to have through the family we have and the friends we treasure.

Sure as last summer was followed by autumn and then winter, before I knew it, spring had arrived and now, in early summer, it is the time for me to end my year of mourning for you.

I want to start this new year remembering you without the bitterness of mourning and although that means moving on, it also gives me the opportunity to bathe in the light that you provided for me.

Thank you, Dad and take care of Mum up there for me.

Your loving son, Claude.


Shabbat Shalom.



09 June 2024

Parashat Bemidbar: Saving Private Cohen

Note: The following Drasha/Sermon was written before the extraordinary (and miraculous) rescue of the four hostages from Gaza on the morning that I delivered the sermon (I only found out about the events after the termination of Shabbat). The courageous joint operation by the IDF, Shin Bet (Security Services), Yamam (National Counter-Terrorist Unit and Police) emphasised the message that I am conveying in these words.

This Drasha is dedicated to the memory of Police Chief Inspector Arnon Zamora, zichrono livracha (of blessed memory) who was tragically killed during the rescue.

Twenty-four minutes.

If you’ve seen the film ‘Saving Private Ryan’, this is the length of the vivid recreation of the  D-Day landings that introduces the story.  It is so graphical in its depiction of the horrors of war, that once witnessed cannot be easily forgotten.  At the time, one of the veterans of the 101st Airborne Division was quoted as saying, “it felt like I was right there again.  It was so damned real.”  Another one said, “That’s as real as a movie could get without the smell of gunpowder and putrefying bodies.” A third, representing the views of many, spoke to CBS News and said how, “watching the movie was like being back in battle.” (https://tinyurl.com/y6z5dewn)

In fact, the depiction of the Normandy Invasion (and the subsequent story) was so accurate that the United States Department of Veteran Affairs (VA) provided a free telephone hotline to help any veterans who had viewed the film cope with the PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) they experienced from watching the film.  Some veterans found it difficult to sleep and found solace in the fact that the screen they were watching it on ‘could block the barrage of bullets that were coming their way’.

Those twenty-four minutes are, at least in my mind, some of the most harrowing scenes I have ever witnessed on the silver screen.

For the uninitiated, the film, though fictional in nature, tells the story of a group of soldiers led by Tom Hanks’ Captain John Miller, who are sent on a mission in occupied Europe to rescue Private James Frances Ryan.  Following the battle, we are told that two of his brothers were killed on the beachhead and a third had been killed in action in New Guinea.  Subsequently, their mother would receive three of the dreaded telegrams on the same day.  To alleviate the grief she would be feeling, it is known that there is a fourth son and that their mission is to bring him back home.  At this time, it is not clear whether or not Private Ryan is still alive.

The tagline for the film was: ‘In the Last Great Invasion of the Last Great War, The Greatest Danger for Eight Men was Saving...One.  The mission is a man.’

The true story which inspired the film derived from a 1944 application of the ‘sole-survivor policy’ with regard to repatriating to the United States Paratrooper Frederick Niland who had lost his three brothers in the war.  To spare his parents the agony of losing all four of their sons.

On Thursday, we commemorated the eightieth anniversary of that invasion.  The US National D-Day Memorial Foundation has calculated that 4,414 allied personnel were killed on 6th June 1944.  This included 2,501 Americans, 1,449 British, 391 Canadians and 73 from the other Allied contingents.

Wednesday marked the fifty-seventh anniversary of another battle and one that was arguably just as significant to our people.  I am of course referring to the liberation of Jerusalem on 7th June 1967 (corresponding with 28th Iyar 5727).

776 IDF soldiers were killed in action over the course of the Six Day War which is less than 20% of those who fell on D-Day.  However, the reunification of Jerusalem is as significant a part of our Jewish history as D-Day was to the countries fighting each other over the course of the Second World War.  In both cases, the outcome led to the eventual defeat of nations who were sworn enemies of the Jewish people (setting aside the Japanese who are not included here).

The Nazis wanted to rid the world of its Jews.  The Egyptians, Syrians and Jordanians wanted to rid Israel of its Jews.  Their methods may have been different (and I am not comparing the Arab Armies to the Nazis and their allies) but they were united in their hatred of our people.

Fortunately, after nearly a hundred years, we are at peace with all our former enemies (aside from Syria).

I haven’t come across a film called ‘Saving Private Cohen’ set in a period which would recreate events from the first few weeks of June 1967.  I also can’t recall sitting through a twenty-four-minute depiction of what it must have been like to liberate the Old City as an IDF Paratrooper (for the record, it was the 55th Paratrooper, Jerusalem and Harel Brigades along with armoured support that liberated the city…and of course Gd’s Divine Assistance!)

I have however found something else and you can read it in this week’s Parasha.

Bemidbar starts with Gd telling Moshe to take a census of the Bnei Yisrael just over a year after they had left Egypt.  Rashi tells us that Gd told Moshe to count the nation several times including a tally that took place following the sin of the Golden Calf followed by a further two in the desert.  The first census is detailed in this week’s Parasha near the start of the forty-year period and the second, later in the book, as they were about to enter the Land of Israel.

Rashi states that the reason why Gd wanted to count us was because of his love for the Jewish People.  As anyone who values something will tell you (such as a collector of artefacts), you derive a great deal of pleasure from numbering the items you own.  So it is with Gd who loves us so deeply that he wants to know how many children (in the widest sense of the word) He has fathered.

We are those ‘children’.

It is well-known that the IDF has a policy that they will never leave an injured or dead soldier on the battlefield.  To Tzahal (army), every soldier counts.  Every single chayal (soldier) is an extended member of the IDF family.  So, if Hollywood ever made a ‘Saving Private Cohen’ film, it’s accurate tagline would be: ‘In Every Israeli War, The Greatest Danger for Eight IDF Soldiers was Saving...One.  The mission is a man or a woman.’

We have witnessed this time and again in these last impossibly challenging and heartbreaking months where soldiers are being killed in their efforts to find our hostages.  Which other nation would see its nationals rushing to a war zone from every corner of the world as happened following the massacres of 7th October?

On a daily basis in Gaza, our teenage brothers and sisters, accompanied by older soldiers, are literally risking their lives to save ‘Privates Berman, Ohana, Bibas, Sharabi, Bohbot, Goldberg-Polin, Shem-Tov’ and over a hundred other hostages.  They are fighting against an enemy who eagerly embraces the ideologies of those who brought savagery and evil into our world for the six years between 1st September 1939 and 8th May 1945 and the six days between 5th and 10th June 1967.

They do so because they understand that, in the words of the Talmud (Sanhedrin 37a):

‘Anyone who sustains one soul from the Jewish people, the Verse ascribes him credit as if he sustained an entire world.’

The fictional soldiers who risked their lives to save Private Ryan might have been based on those who brought Paratrooper Frederick Niland back to the bosom of his family.

Over 290 IDF soldiers have been killed trying to save the notional privates that I listed above.  Not to forget those who lost their lives trying to protect civilians on 7th October itself.

In the past, it was easy to distinguish between the oppressor and the oppressed.  That Israel, the true victim of Hamas’ genocidal policy, is treated as the enemy by some that we mistakenly considered to be friends is both shocking and deeply worrying.

We are so proud of our boys and girls in the IDF who are continuing the tradition that every single person counts.

We don’t need another 6th June or 7th October to remind us of what happens when evil is allowed to flourish.

May Gd who loves His people so much that He wanted to count us, take another census and help them to save our real ‘Private Ryans’ and hopefully, this will be the one which precedes the coming of Moshiach.

May he come speedily in our days and bring and to war forever.

Amen.

Shabbat Shalom. 

26 May 2024

Parashat Behar: Our Symbiotic Relationship


On Mount Sinai, the Lord spoke to Moshe, “Speak to the Israelites.  Say: When you enter the land that I am giving you, the land shall keep a Sabbath to the Lord.  For six years you may plant your fields, prune your vineyards and harvest their crops.  But the seventh year shall be to the land a Sabbath of complete rest, a Sabbath to the Lord.  You shall not sow your fields or prune your vineyards; you shall not harvest what grows of itself or gather the grapes of your unpruned vine; it is a year of rest for the land. 


My mother’s maternal side lived in Kraków and, like most Jews, knew very little about farming.  My great-grandfather, Kalman Bienenzucht (the German term for beekeeping) was a wine merchant who travelled from the suburb of Podgórze to Germany to sell wine to monasteries. Farming was strictly out of bounds. Incidentally, Podgórze would later be the location of the Ghetto which was established on 3rd March 1941and from which the Jews were later deported to several concentration camps including Auschwitz. Nearly every member of his family was murdered although he survived and died of natural causes hiding in Spa, eastern Belgium in 1942.

Few Jews in Poland (unlike their counterparts in Russia) were farmers.  Reading this week’s Parasha, I wonder if they could have countenanced the notion that ‘shmitta’, a set of laws that had been (understandably) neglected for nearly two millennia, would re-enter into our vocabulary as a going concern less than a century later?

He died six decades after the Rabbis in pre-State Palestine re-introduced the concept and six decades after Jews started returning to our ancient homeland in their droves.

Shmitta was now relevant once again but it had to be interpreted in an era that was markedly different to the last time it had been enacted.  When the Jews started returning and working the land, establishing kibbutzim and moshavim (settlements), it was practically impossible to observe the laws of shmitta, granted that they would have had to cease production on the land for a year.  Hence, they cleverly reused an idea that we’ve just employed over Pesach.

In the same way that we sell our chametz to Gentiles to obviate owning it and transgressing another Torah command, they introduced the concept of ‘heter mechira’ which means a ‘sale permit’.  The Jews could sell their land to the non-Jewish inhabitants for a small amount and then employ Gentiles to work that land during the shmitta year.  The farms would be operational and the shmitta produce would be available to all.  This is the model that has been used since (as you may recall last year throughout the latest shmitta).

The laws of shmitta in this week’s Parasha underscore the symbiotic relationship between the Jewish people and the Land of Israel.  Hashem tells us that when we observe the laws of shmitta, we will receive a bumper crop in the sixth year of the cycle which will provide enough food to last for three years.  He reminds us that the land is His and we are ‘merely migrants’.  As long as we keep the rules, we deserve to inhabit the land.

The Tanach (Chronicles II, 36 21) quotes Jeremiah who prophesised that the initial exile following the destruction of the first Beit Hamikdash lasted for 70 years…

…in fulfilment of the word of the L-RD spoken by Jeremiah, until the land paid back its sabbaths; as long as it lay desolate it kept sabbath, till seventy years were completed. 

The Jews had neglected to observe ten cycles of shmitta and as a result, they were exiled for that precise amount of time.

Throughout the time that we were exiled from the land it regressed.  We only need to look at the help provided by Sir Moses Montefiore to assist the beleaguered Jewish community to see how difficult the situation was.  Without Jewish presence, the land withered and slid into obscurity.  Once our nation returned and reinstated our ancient laws, the agricultural miracle that is the State of Israel came into being.  For Israel to bloom, it must be inhabited by Jews.  For our nation to thrive and survive, we need to inhabit our ancient homeland.

One of the tragedies emanating from the massacres of 7th October, in addition to the murder and abduction of so many people, was the devastation inflicted on the kibbutzim and the flora and fauna therein.  Not to be beaten, Jews from both within and outside Israel came forward to provide invaluable assistance in terms of helping with the harvest, picking fruit and doing everything they could to assist in the vital agricultural work that had been impacted as there are many farms that are struggling to survive.

It could take years to fully recover from the damage that has been done but the Jewish people have a long history of clinging tenaciously to our homeland.

The laws of shmitta are inexorably linked to the idea of freedom.  Working the land for six years allows it to be ‘free’ on the seventh in the same way that we are blessed to have Shabbat as our day of ‘freedom’ from work.

It is not a coincidence that the shmitta year also enabled Jewish slaves to be free and upon the completion of the forty-nine-year cycle, in the fiftieth, Jubilee year, all land and property returned to its original owner.  The Jubilee year can only be celebrated when all twelve tribes return to the Land of Israel.

Nearly a hundred years after the death of my great-grandfather, ancient laws that he might have considered to be obsolete are very much part of our lives.

We can only hope and pray that soon the whole world will come to recognise that our symbiotic relationship with the Land of Israel was not predicated on a UN vote in November 1947.  It can be found throughout the Torah and particularly in this week’s Parasha.

May we merit the coming of Moshiach and the return of our brothers and sisters from the four corners of the world, Amen!

Shavuah Tov.

12 May 2024

Parashat Kedoshim: The Letters That Define Us.

Dalet (ד), Kuf (ק), and Shin (ש) are three letters of the alef-bet that pronounced individually have no symbolic meaning (although as we know, the letter Shin represents G-d’s name through its use on religious items such as Mezuzot and Tefillin).

Join them together and they form one of the most important shorashim/roots in the Hebrew language.  A word, that is so integral to our faith that without it, the religion that we practice would be completely unrecognisable.

That root is the word קָדַשׁ (Kodash).

One of the names we call Gd is Hakadosh Baruch-Hu, the Holy One, Blessed be He.

We have just celebrated the festival of Pesach and the Seder begins with Kadesh.     Imagine observing Shabbat without making Kiddush or enjoying a Kiddush after shul?  How would a mourner be able to honour their departed relative without reciting Kaddish (and we know how upset we feel when we are unable to form a minyan)?  Our Torah Scrolls are stored in the Aron Kodesh.  That minyan enables us to recite the Kedusha prayer in the repetition of the Amidot that are recited throughout the entire week at Shacharit, Mincha and when applicable, Musaph.

Our Temple was known as the Beit Hamikdash and the Kodesh Hakodashim or Holy of Holies was where the Ark of the Covenant was stored (in the First Temple).  It was accessed by the Kohen Gadol/High Priest on the holiest day of the year, Yom Kippur.

Anything that was consecrated for use in the Temple such as animals for offerings of monetary donations towards the treasury to pay for the building’s upkeep were considered to be Hekdesh.  Since Talmudic Times, we have continued this concept to cover mitzvot such as giving Tzedaka, in terms of not misusing funds that were consecrated towards providing monetary relief to the poor members of our communities.

You may have seen the acronym קק  (or KK) as part of the name of a Synagogue. This stands for Kahal Kodesh which means a ‘Holy Community’.

These are a few examples of how the shoresh of the word ‘k-d-sh  ק־ד־שׁ’ is embedded within the DNA of Judaism.

But what does the word ‘kodesh’ mean and what does it represent?

On a simple/peshat level, Kodesh means holy or sacred.

I found a lovely definition of the word on https://www.balashon.com/2022/04/kodesh-and-kadosh.html

The author writes…

…that the root קדש has two primary connotations.

1) ‘to be holy’, in the sense of ‘lofty, exalted’, even ‘perfect’, and perhaps closer to divine.  This is captured well by the English word ‘holy’ (and the related ‘hallow’) which derives from an earlier root meaning ‘whole, uninjured’ (and is ultimately cognate with ‘whole’ as well.)

2) ‘to set apart, separate.’  Perhaps this meaning could better be expressed with the adjective ‘sacred,’ and the verb ‘sanctify’, both of which derive from roots indicating separation or consecration.

When we sanctify something, we give it a separate Halachic status.  On Shabbat, we do this by blessing the day when make the bracha of ‘mekadesh HaShabbat – He who sanctifies the Sabbath’ through the blessing over the wine or grape juice.

Kedushah or holiness is therefore a state which separates a person or item from other people or objects.  You may be surprised to hear that one of the Biblical words to describe a harlot is Kedesha (see Bereishit 38:21, with regard to Judah’s description of his unrecognizable daughter-in-law, Tamar).  This is because she is woman who separates herself from the rest of a moral driven society.

Our national connection with this idea of Kedusha (as representing separation and holiness) finds its origins in Gd’s instruction to our ancestors at the foot of Mount Sinai.

As we were about to receive the Torah, He told us (Shemot 19) that if we faithfully heeded His voice and kept His covenant, we would be His treasure among all the peoples…Mamlechet Cohanim – a kingdom of priests and Goy Kadosh – a holy nation.

At Sinai, holiness, sacredness and therefore separation were branded into our national consciousness.  To be Gd’s nation, to represent His presence on earth, to teach His Torah - which He gave to us – to the rest of the world, meant having to be different from others. 
Not better but different.

This week’s Parasha begins with G-d’s instruction to Moshe:

“Speak to all the community of Israel.  Say…Kedoshim Tihiyu, ki kadosh Ani Hashem Elokeichem – Be holy, for I am holy, I The Lord your Gd.”

Parashat Kedoshim provides detailed instructions on what holiness entails.  How, we as a nation must prioritise a different set of laws and moral standards that were vastly dissimilar to those kept and practiced by the other nations who surrounded us, both near and far.  If we followed Gd’s commands, we would reap the rewards of His beneficence.

On the flip side, we discovered that we also suffered as a result of the inevitable hate directed at us from those who saw us as different.  Those who did not respect or value the tight-knitted and caring societies that we established.  Those who resented the righteousness we espoused and the strong moral compass that underpinned the way we behaved.

Throughout the centuries that followed, we paid the price for being Kedoshim – holy, and the term itself came to represent those of our nation who were killed ‘al Kiddush Hashem’ – sanctifying Gd’s name.

Last Monday, we remembered the six million Kedoshim - the holy martyrs of the Shoah.  Tomorrow night, we will mark the commencement of Yom Hazikaron which recalls many other Kedoshim.  The holy souls who have been killed protecting and living in Medinat Yisrael including those who were martyred on 7th October and ever since.

Being separate may encourage us to live by a different set of moral rules.  It also requires us to pay a bloody price in terms of the suffering we have been subjected to and continue to endure from those whose despise us – precisely because we are Kadosh.

In just over two weeks, I will be completing the eleven months of reciting Kaddish in memory of my father.  For those of us who have gone through the mourning process, we know how lonely it feels to sometimes find yourself being the only one to recite the prayer.

Many people don’t like to draw attention to themselves in shul.  They are happy to sit at the back and blend in with others.  They come to shul, talk a little, pray, speak to their friends, enjoy the kiddush and return home.  Reciting Kaddish removes their anonymity and instantly, every ear in the building is focused on listening to them.

Stephnie and I recently spent Pesach at the new BNJC hub in Hove.  As you may be aware, it is also the new home of the Brighton and Hove Hebrew Congregation (BHHC).  Throughout the Chag, I was one of two or three people saying Kaddish.  Despite my having recited this prayer probably close to two thousand times over the last ten months, I felt very conscious whenever it was time to recite this (despite knowing how important it is in helping my dear father’s soul reach its heavenly destination).

On the last day of Yom Tov, something extraordinary took place.  At the end of Yizkor, every single person in the room recited Kaddish alongside me.  For the first time, we were united in this incredible, holy prayer.  It was the very epitome of what it meant to be part of Goy Kadosh – a holy, sacred nation.  I was so moved that it almost took my breath away.

Three letters that may seem to be insignificant, underpin who we are.  Irrespective of how connected or disconnected some of our brethren may be, I would wager that it is a minority of Jews who don’t know what a Kiddush is.  It is a handful who wouldn’t appreciate or be moved by hearing someone recite Kaddish and it is even fewer who wouldn’t know what we place inside an Aron Kodesh (even if they don’t know its Hebrew name).

Each of us has a Kedushah gene in our Jewish DNA regardless of whether we can understand or explain why we are different and what makes us so.  That it takes antisemitism to wake this up in some is desperately sad but at the same time, it reminds us of who we are and where we originate.

Kaf, Dalet and Shin form the single word which defines us, for we are Gd’s Holy nation.

Along with the Angels, we praise Gd as being Kadosh, Kadosh, Kadosh - Holy, Holy, Holy.

May He sanctify us and bring us to the eternal redemption with the coming of Moshiach.

Amen and Shavuah Tov.


14 April 2024

Parashat Tazria: The Power of Words

It is a two-hundred-year-old English rhyme that every child knows from the school playground ‘Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me.’

I was fortunate not to be one of those poor kids who was bullied, possibly because I always stood up for myself and was not averse to getting into a scrap to prove it.  Did the names hurt?  Of course, but I wasn’t going to let the bully know it.  You can recover much more quickly from a minor physical wound than the psychological damage inflicted by a well-aimed barb.  Words hurt and nasty words really hurt.

We, the original ‘People of the Book’, understand the power of words.  Chapter five of (Pirkei) Avot that we will begin reading after Pesach on Shabbat afternoons as part of the Mincha Service tells us that ‘B’asara ma’amarot nivra ha’olam. – The world was created with ten utterances.’

The Chief Rabbi (https://chiefrabbi.org/all-media/words-create-worlds/) quotes the Mishna which asks the question (of) why it took Gd ten utterances to create the world.  Surely, He could have done this with only one!  He writes that the Mishna responds that this was to increase the reward of the righteous who sustain the world through ten acts of speech.  On the opposite end, Gd ‘exacts punishment from the wicked who destroy the world with ten acts of speech’.  Rabbi Sacks ztl explains that the word ‘Vayomer’ – ‘and He said’ appears ten times in the first chapter of Bereshit prefacing Gd’s creative work.

The Jewish point of view therefore disagrees with the rhyme.  The power of words can do much more than ‘break our bones’…they really can hurt us!

The joint parashot of Tazria and Metzora (the latter of which we will read next Shabbat) deal with the affliction of Tzaraat which was translated into Greek as ‘leprosy’ in the 6th Century C.E. and unfortunately this mistranslation has remained in our vernacular (and certain Bibles) to the present day.

Tzaraat describes a series of skin afflictions which could spread to a person’s clothes and even their house (as described in Parashat Metzora) although there are Sages who doubt that the latter ever happened.  The Gemara (Erchin 16a) states that the condition was supernatural in nature in that it originated from Gd and the recipient, according to Rabbi Shmuel bar Nachmani in the name of Rabbi Yochanan, was afflicted for the following sins:

1.    malicious speech known as Lashon Hara (literally ‘evil speech’)

2.    bloodshed

3.    an oath taken in vain

4.    forbidden sexual relations

5.    arrogance

6.    theft

7.    and for stinginess

All of these can be classed as falling under the category of ‘anti-social behaviour’.

Before the advent of ASBOs, Gd had a different way of isolating a person from their community.  This is described in detail within the verses of our Parashot.  Being afflicted with Tzaraat would therefore be described in contemporary terms as a person becoming a ‘social outcast’.

The most famous individual in the Torah afflicted with Tzaraat was Miriam.  If you recall she spoke Lashon Hara regarding her brother Moshe following his separation from his wife Tzipporah.  She was punished by being excluded from the Israelite camp for seven days as per the commandments listed in this week’s Parasha.

Although all seven sins were considered reason enough for Divine punishment to be enacted, I will focus on the first, that of Lashon Hara.  I believe that we can justifiably state that we haven’t murdered, stolen, acted in an immoral manner or been any less than generous in our financial dealings with others.  Who amongst us can claim that we haven’t spoken Lashon Hara?

After all it’s so easy.  All it takes is a simple conversation which begins with:

“Did you hear about ‘x’?  Just last week, they were seen…”

or

“I can’t believe that ‘y’ said that about their colleague.  Do you think it’s true?

or

“I’m not going to be buying there again because...”

A careless slip of the tongue can cause a great deal of harm to a person’s reputation.  One that may have taken years to establish.  Do we think about the repercussions that may occur because of our words?

In most instances, we don’t speak ill of others with the intention of causing them distress. Over the last few years, two Jewish charities, Seed and Gift (both of which are particularly close to my heart) have created a joint programme called ‘The Clean Speech Project’ (https://www.cleanspeech.co.uk/).

This consists of many communities, schools and individuals, such as Stephnie and myself, undertaking to spend a month working on improving the way we communicate with each other through, in their words, ‘promoting positive speech’.  This is the second year that we’ve joined the project, which ran from 5th February to 12th March this year.

I can’t say that I’m ‘there yet’ but both Stephnie and I have made a conscious effort to minimise the amount of Lashon Hara we both speak and hear.

‘Tariq Silma Ousa Abu Shlouf’ may not be a name that you are familiar with.  If I tell you that he was the ‘Spokesperson of Islamic Jihad’ who was captured by the IDF, you might have a better idea of who he is.  In the video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dxrZXt46-5E) he admits that they lied about the rocket that fell on the Al -Ahli Al-Ma’mdani Hospital.  The terrorist was amongst the more than 500 that were arrested during the recent IDF operation to clear the Al-Shifa hospital.

He says, “It was a local rocket, we said it was Israeli.  I remember it from the beginning (of the war)...in order to erase the story, the organization made several moves, it fabricated a story (that) the rocket belonged to ‘the occupation’ and that the target was the building (the hospital). They relied on some of the stories from the international stories, from the international press.”

The interrogator asks, “Okay and after that they published it to the whole world?” to which he replies, “Yes.”  He continues by explaining that along with the Hamas spokesman, they tell one story to the internal media organizations and the Gazans and a different one to the international organizations.  He says, “The international media differs from the Arab ones, they focus on humanitarian issues, we don’t speak to them in the language of violence, destruction and revenge.”

We have seen the result of his work in the terrifying backlash we are witnessing on the streets of London and other cities around the world.  Lashon Hara has enabled our enemies to shed their pretence and demonstrate their hatred of Jews and Israel.  Hateful, antisemitic statements are being made by people across the political and cultural spectrum in terms that we thought had been buried after the ashes and bodily remains of the six million were still extant. This is all down to the abuse of words.  The destructive impact that they can have on the world in which we wish live in harmony with our fellow human beings.

I can’t conceive of a timelier reminder of how the causes for Tzaraat are tragically still with us.  Our enemies have been afflicted by the spiritual poisoning that Tzaraat used to highlight on the epidermis.  However, instead of being socially isolated, it is we, the victims who are the outcasts of their Lashon Hara regarding our amazing Jewish State and our brothers and sisters, the captives, citizens and soldiers.

How can we fight this epidemic? I suggest that our most powerful weapon is through looking at ourselves and eliminating the Lashon Hara that we speak within our Jewish nation.  If we can work on improving our own linguistic deficiencies, we will be in a far stronger position to fight back against our enemies.

The heartbreaking scenes which last year saw Jews fighting Jews through the streets of Israel and even in our own city of London shook us. When 7th October arrived, we realised that we needed to harness our minds and bodies and turn to reciting words of love and prayer.  We have turned to our ancient texts and started reciting them in ways that we could not have envisaged this time last year.

We reminded ourselves of the power of words to heal, fortify and steel us against those who wished us harm.  We reached out to those who felt isolated within our communities and held them close.  Hamas and their murderous companions did not distinguish between right and left wing, orthodox or secular, Sephardi or Ashkenazi, gay or straight, the elderly or the young, male or female.

Sticks and stones may break our bones and names may even hurt me.  Words, however, when spoken in love, will never do me harm.

May our enemies be struck with an inner and external Tzaraat that isolates them from those amongst whom we live who value the extraordinary power of constructive words and may we and they only be conversant in ‘clean speech’ because our world needs this more than ever.

Shavuah Tov.

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